I believe in this particular saying "Whatever happens, happens for the BEST."
I am a strong believer of this, and this is what makes me going in LIFE.
However hurt you maybe at a particular incident or at that time you may feel why me-- always believing that God intended it for a reason helps.
It makes you calm faster. It has always worked for me.
Whenever in life I have been through bad times, things that I think should not have happened to me.......something always happens later which makes me realize that what happened in the past happened for good.
That's my proverb...........what's yours??