Sunday, June 16, 2013

Short Story - The Essence Of Family- Blog Marathon 5

The Nook was the only place open at this late hour. The diner was situated in a burgeoning residential and business district regarded by real estate experts as one of the “top five up-and-coming” areas in the nation. As I waited in my car I looked through the window at the two men situated at the only occupied booth. A plate of burger and french fries was laid on the table alongside steaming coffee. Neither of the two men noticed the food as they talked nineteen to a dozen.


This was not the case few months back. My family consisting of my husband Marc and my son Reno lived in a 2 BHK apartment in the suburbs. Marc was working as an Assistant Director in an esteemed organization. We were a very close knitted family and loved the time we spent together. Week-ends were meant for barbeques and parks. Yearly family trips were much awaited event for all of us. Due to his hard-working and diligent work Marc was promoted to the Board of Directors. Very soon we moved into a lavish well furnished bungalow in the city. It was built on 3 acres of land and came with its own majestic well pruned lawn. For the first time we even had a butler along with 4 servants for the house-work. The house encompassed of four bedrooms along with a great hall for entertaining, guest and servant rooms. We even had a big swimming pool in the backyard.

I got introduced to the socialite club through a few friendly ladies from the neighborhood. They were a group of high society ladies who spend a significant amount of time entertaining and being entertained at the fashionable events. I was sucked in their glamorous and pristine world.

Reno was starting high school. At his previous place he was good student, an athlete (on the varsity swim and water polo tennis), and a lauded student journalist. On the recommendation of Marc’s other colleagues we enrolled him in one of the affluent schools in the city. Reno did not appreciate the fact that he had to leave his friends behind but Marc convinced him it would be fine and we were there for him.

Marc started putting in long hours at work; he also was travelling a lot. Reno had a hard time fitting in his new school. Most of the boys knew that he had just moved in from the suburbs and gave him a really tough time. He came home dejected to talk to either me or Marc but we both were busy in our own bubbled world of riches. Since Marc was not home most of the times he made it a point to get Reno the best of everything. He always provided the latest iphone, the latest mac, home-theatre system and also gave him lots of cash.

One week-end that Marc was home we decided to use the much neglected pool. Reno was eagerly looking forward for his Dad’s company. As we stepped in Marc’s cell phone rang and he rushed to an immediate board meeting. I was too tired and went to rest in my room. Reno was left alone. Marc’s company soon lost the contract of a major client they were handling. This was a major set back and all Board of Directors had to put in extra hours to get their business in order. Soon Marc took to drinking and started getting irritated and angry at minor things. He usually came home late at night in alcohol induced stupors. On one such night after reaching home he was checking his voicemail which had Reno’s teacher’s message. He notified Marc about Reno’s falling grades and asked him to visit school the next day. Rage filled in his bloodshot eyes and he walked over to Reno’s room, dragged the sleepy boy out of his bed and began thrashing him hard. Reno’s initial shcok turned to resentment and he started crying out loudly. Hearing all this commotion I ran down and could just about manage to stop Marc with the butler’s help and take him to his room.

Next day Marc left early. I too heard of Reno’s falling grades and decided to stay at home to question him. As soon as Reno was back from school I asked him about his school friends but he avoided answering any of my questions. He said he had some work and locked himself up in his room. I made some coffee for the two of us and decided to talk to him in his room. I went up the landing and knocked his room thrice before it was opened. Reno refused the coffee and did not allow me to enter inside. That is when I clearly noticed my son, his eyes were hazy looking, and I could see dark circles under them. I also noticed the fatigue in the lean structure that was enclosed in a loose sweatshirt he had on. Tears flowed down freely as I walked downstairs. That night I waited for Marc to return. I told him I was worried for our son. Marc consoled me stating that the previous nights events were taking a toll on my thoughts. I should just get some rest.

Sleep evaded me as I tossed and turned the whole night. The next day I cancelled all my to-attend functions and visited Reno’s school. I first met his school teacher who said that initially Reno was keen and eager to adapt to the new environment, was attending all his classes but off late he was absent for most and that affected his grades. He asked me to talk to one of Reno’s initial acquaintance by the name of Chuck.

Chuck informed me that Reno and he got together due to their common passion of water-polo. Reno was teased a lot in school as “low-class”. He hurt a lot at this nick-name and wanted to be cool like everyone else. He soon started flaunting all his latest toys in school. This caught the attention of the elite club of boys that invited him to their late night parties of booze. Mike attended a few but Reno was like a spider caught in his own web. He kept falling and falling deeper in the mesh. Soon he started keeping his distance from Chuck and others, started bunking classes and was seen only with the other gang of boys.

My heart ached on hearing all this, did this change in my baby happen under my very own eyes. I returned home and waited for Reno to get back. It was past midnight when Reno returned home. One look at his face and I knew things were totally out of control for us. I started questioning him and immediately he looked at me with contempt, “Where were you when I needed you the most. You and Dad left me by myself and now you want me to answer you. Never! “saying this, he strode towards his room. I was shocked beyond words. When Marc returned later I told him of the events of the day. Marc was in denial to all that I mentioned.

The next day after Reno left I ransacked his room. I found pills (psychedelics, ecstasy, uppers, downers), in addition there were syringe and needles with tiny bottles marked heroin, crack, and crystal meth. My body trembled as I took these up to Marc in our bedroom. We were like zombies. “This can’t be happening to our son – our Reno” he was protected by his intelligence, his education- his family. That is when it hit us hard, we were not available to our son when he needed us the most. Our greed for money and power left our adolescent teenager vulnerable and lonely. The past few months flashed before our eyes. Myself and Marc knew that we were accountable for all the change that had happened in Reno’s life. Without blinking an eye Marc took a decision then and there to quit his job. He was stressed out completely by the work pressures and now for the mammoth burden that it had laid on our family. He wanted to tell of his decision to Reno himself. We waited up together for Reno to return.

Reno was surprised to see both of us waiting for him. We drove to the Nook. Father and son went inside while I sat waiting in the car. Through the window I saw Marc put an arm over his son as they walked to the booth. The sat side by side as they placed their order. I could see Marc mouthing few words and suddenly there was a genuine shock and delightful surprise on Reno’s haggard face.

I parked the car and walked inside. I hugged the two best men in my life . We would get over this, after all we are a close knitted FAMILY.







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Saturday, June 15, 2013

55 Story - Blog Marathon 4

I dwindled my thumbs as I waited for his arrival. The Arrival board indicated the flight had landed. My eyes kept glancing to the terminal gates. It would take time as his was an International flight. It was 6 months since I had left him, even though I knew he needed me the most. He is the true love of my life, yet I left him to get a much needed break. Would he re-acknowledge me back in his life immediately or would we have to work it over time. As these thoughts circled in my head he walked out, our eyes met, his stared back blankly, my heart ached, we drove home silently. Back home I once again looked him in the eye with outstreached arms. “Amma”, he said gleefully and jumped in them. Tears of joy rolled down.






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Note: True story of when my son returned from India after his 6 month stay with grand-parents. I left him when he was a year old.



Friday, June 14, 2013

How I manage my time. - Blog Marathon 3

In our apartment complex most of the married  ladies are SAHM, there are very few 2-3 of us who are working. The other ladies always comment on how I can do so much even after working. I come back from office and cook, go for walk, play volleyball(in summers), spend time with my son, read to him, make him write etc.
If there is any social gathering(I am usually the one to initiate it) I will always be in the fore-front, managing, getting accounts, co-ordinating and even hosting.
And for all those who ask me how I do it, I have only one answer I love doing all of it.

I set my priorities, At this time Ritvik and his needs are more important, so like getting food ready is a definite must. Once that is done I can do whatever in my free time.
Morning 9-5 I go to office, there is no escaping that. As soon as I return home I make tea for myself and hubby.
We sip our tea and snacks and look at R's antics.
5:30 - I start preparing meals. It takes me about 35-40 minutes. I usually make a sabzi and a curry. Thankfully we have a rice cooker for cooking rice so I have to just put the rice and water, set it to cook and leave. If it is chapati then hubby will make the dough, I can just return and make chapatis.
6:15 7:15 - I go running/walking.
7:15 - 9:00 - Play volleyball/play with Ritvik
9:15 - Retunr home, have dinner, dishes are washed by hubby( I read to my son)
10 - 11:00 TV time
11: 00- Bed

Really, it is not at all difficult to manage time if you know what you want to get out of it.
So tell me what is your typical day like?

Thursday, June 13, 2013

2013 - Wednesday C-Rec C Level-Week2 - Blog Marathon 2

Yesterday's game was against Kiss My Pass. The new girl B did not turn up and hence we could play with only 4 members (2 girls + 2 boys). We had 4 games and we won 3 out of them. The opposition was not all that good and we must have played really bad to loose that 1 set.
I even took a dive but that turned out to be futile as the ball was nowhere near the net.

Looking forward to the next one.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Rain Song - Blog Marathon 1

Today morning it was raining heavily. After brushing me and R were siting on the sofa looking at the rain and I was thinking of making up some rain song for him to listen and drink his milk. I told him I am going to sing a rain song and suddenly he says, No Stop-I'll sing and he started singing this made up song with actions.

"Kutti kutti kutti mazha vardhu"
"Lightining vardhu, thunder varudhu"
"Nariye clouds dash panite break aayidh"
"Apram adhan sun varudh"

Translation:
Little drops of rain are falling
Lightining coming, thunder coming
Lots of clouds are dashing and breaking
and then sun is coming out shining.

I am so impressed with his song, he made it on the spot and a proud mommy is still humming the tune.

Monday, June 10, 2013

2013 - Wednesday C-Rec C Level


SANDVOLLEY - 2013 SUMMER - 005

Teams may have double headers on any given night.Teams should also pay special attention to the start times each night of play, as it

may vary to adjust to accomodate to sunset.

There are no games on Wednesday, July 3.

There will be playoffs the final two weeks, August 14 and August 21. Brackets will be sent out closer to those dates.

In case of inclement weather please call our Weather Line, 952-949-8449, which will be updated with any cancellations by 4:00pm.

Otherwise, if inclement weather occurs after 4pm, the officials on site will cancel from the courts.

Date/Time Facility Home Team Vs Away Team

Wed, Jun 5 6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Panino Bros Hit Squad Vs Team BM

6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Sandstorm Vs Notorious D.I.G

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Hit Squad Vs Sandy Drawers

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Kiss My Pass Vs Kiss My Ace

Wed, Jun 12 6:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Kiss My Pass Vs Team BM

6:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Kiss My Ace Vs Notorious D.I.G

7:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Hit Squad Vs Panino Bros Hit Squad

8:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Sandstorm Vs Sandy Drawers

Wed, Jun 19 6:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Hit Squad Vs Sandstorm

6:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Kiss My Pass Vs Panino Bros Hit Squad

7:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Kiss My Ace Vs Sandy Drawers

8:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Notorious D.I.G Vs Team BM

Wed, Jun 26 6:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Team BM Vs Sandy Drawers

6:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Kiss My Ace Vs Sandstorm

7:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Notorious D.I.G Vs Panino Bros Hit Squad

8:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Hit Squad Vs Kiss My Pass

Wed, Jul 10 6:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Notorious D.I.G Vs Kiss My Pass

6:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Hit Squad Vs Kiss My Ace

7:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Kiss My Pass Vs Panino Bros Hit Squad

7:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Notorious D.I.G Vs Team BM

8:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Sandy Drawers Vs Panino Bros Hit Squad

8:00 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Team BM Vs Sandstorm

Wed, Jul 17 6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Panino Bros Hit Squad Vs Sandstorm

6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Sandy Drawers Vs Kiss My Pass

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Hit Squad Vs Notorious D.I.G

League Schedule- Custom with Emails

Date/Time Facility Home Team Vs Away Team

Wed, Jul 17 7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Team BM Vs Kiss My Ace

Wed, Jul 24 6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Sandy Drawers Vs Notorious D.I.G

6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Hit Squad Vs Team BM

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Panino Bros Hit Squad Vs Kiss My Ace

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Sandstorm Vs Kiss My Pass

Wed, Jul 31 6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Hit Squad Vs Sandy Drawers

6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Sandstorm Vs Notorious D.I.G

6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 3 Kiss My Pass Vs Kiss My Ace

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Hit Squad Vs Sandstorm

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Kiss My Ace Vs Sandy Drawers

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 3 Panino Bros Hit Squad Vs Team BM

Wed, Aug 7 6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Kiss My Pass Vs Team BM

6:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Hit Squad Vs Panino Bros Hit Squad

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 1 Sandstorm Vs Sandy Drawers

7:30 pm Riley Lake Park - Volleyball Court 2 Kiss My Ace Vs Notorious D.I.G

************************************************************* We are Team BM and our first match was yesterday against Panino Bros Hit Squad. We reached Lake Riley by 6:15. The ratio of Women had to be more or equal than Men. Me and Kavitha were already in and as the other girl opted out G had to take another girl from the rooster. Since this delayed for so many days let me just say we Won the first match.
Hurray

Monday, June 03, 2013

June 1-2 week-end 2013

June 1st we decided to go for the Gems show. There is an annual gems show at the MN state fair grounds each year. This time I was not planning to go but finally I ended up going and did buy couple of stuff for myself.
There were lots of beads and gems and jewellery sets.
Evening we had a bday party to attend.
Sun was bad as I woke up with a tummy ache and then thre up everything that I had ate.
Full day went in resting in bed and not eating a thing.
Evening also was very tired to do anything.
Night took a crocin and slept soundly.
Much better this morning.